Baby Girl!

August 6th, 2012

I take my camera whenever I go visiting friends with kids – especially new babies. You never know what you may get when you are least expecting. I also know that the new mom doesn’t have time to stop and breathe let alone take time to capture her new little blessing. So, the next time you bring a yummy dinner to a new mom – – bring your camera too and get a few shots of the new baby- – it will be a gift they will love way after the dinner is gone and the dishes are done!

A new hat makes a perfect picture.


…especially when  you get a little ‘almost smile’ to go with it!


Sometime the best photos are taken without moving the baby out of her position at all – – I moved the swing so it faced the window and got the light on her face.


We took her top off because we like baby skin – but she still didn’t wake up!


This is in b&w with a warm touch in editing.


This shows another b&w before warming it up:


…then after warming just a touch:


Love those baby feet! (by the way…invest in a diaper cover, they are a must for your baby camera bag!)



Is she waking up?




Ask mom to help – – her hands were under the blanket below holding up her head – – pretty soon baby will be able to hold her own head up but for now this works great. Remember to stay close to the window light so you see the ‘light’ in her eyes – – that is when you know you have enough light on her face.


Have mom carry her over to the window for some natural window light:



Finally, I carry a few yards of black fabric to use for a backdrop anywhere I go, works great:


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Camera Mom Tips for this shoot:

  1. All of these shots were with my 1.4 50 mm lens
  2. Most were shot at: f Stop 3.5 (because I was pretty close) ISO 500, ss 1/125; but it all depends on the available light
  3. I did lighten a few of the photos  in editing but I did not touch up any of the shots, if mom wants to enlarge a favorite for framing I will use my editing tool to remove some of the little bumps if she wants me too. But I don’t believe you need to spend a lot of time in editing; we are busy moms and editing takes tons of time!
  4. I keep a small bag packed with the following for baby outings

blue, pink and white small satin blanket

boy and girl diaper covers

3-4 yards of tulle

black fabric

small stuffed animal for getting babies attention, rattle

various hats and bows as I collect them

Camera bag: 50mm lens and tripod

Final tip!

Don’t bring any expectations with you!!! I try to ‘act’ like my visits are not to get the perfect photo – – when expectations are set high baby somehow knows and doesn’t cooperate! When the the mood is relaxed and fun and calm we are all happier and we get much better photos!

Party On!

July 22nd, 2012

Two tough 8 year old (count the fingers) pirates! … Scary looking!


The party is about to start and everyone is getting very excited…. I like to have parties in the late afternoon so I have more time for last minute touches and am not so rushed. Plus a summer birthday party can be brutally hot at noon so the dinner time parties work best for us.


(The nets came from a left over vacation bible school program!)

The boys picked out their plates and the tables were set!! There are so many choices these days for cute party supplies that we just get a little of a variety instead of trying to make a decision on one choice.



We loaded the treasure chests with goldfish and the shark with fruit…


got the food on the table:


and put the flowers in a vase.


The treasure chest was loaded with black ‘cannon ball’ water balloons


and drinks were put on ice…


Friends came dressed for the part and the boys started arriving!


We gave them their hats, earrings, eye patches and bandanas and they worked hard to get the right pirate faces!


The gang is all here!



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.. ‘playing dead’ happens a lot at a pirate party‘


Finding clues around the pond was necessary to get to the final treasure…


which was actually ‘buried’ in 12 little bags at the bottom of the pool!


Diving in to get the treasure out of the deep end was was worth it when it came to buying the loot!











The pirate ship got a work out….


and everyone had fun!


We finally got to eat the ‘sandy’ cake!



Sparklers are always a wonderful way to end any celebration and they are fun to photograph.



sparkler settings: shutter speed 1/4 second ISO 400 F Stop 3.5

We had a blast and the boys loved every minute. Celebrate your life and take time to photograph it along the way. Dive in and get off the green box and get more confident with your camera, you won’t know what you can do until you try it over and over! I promise your final treasure will be priceless!

(If you have any questions about the party planning post them on the Confident Camera Moms FB page I will be glad to answer them!)

More party Planning

June 29th, 2012

The Pirate Party needed just a few more touches!

I wanted to do some sort of Candy Bar for the party as they are so fun and festive. So, as the idea evolved for the Candy Bar I decided to pre warp some of the candy because it is difficult for little hands to gather enough candy in one handful. Plus, we were playing a game where each pirate would get a bag of money to spend on some goodies.

I began the very fun task of naming and wrapping the goodies for purchase at what became The Black Pearl trading post! I used some circle punches and paper and a cute Pirate Font (Pieces of Eight free on to begin my project.


The candy was bagged and ‘pirate’ names were given..this really didn’t take too long and I made sure we had 12  bags of each for our 12 pirate guests.



Once wrapped I placed them in baskets and on plates I located around the house!




The sparklers were a huge seller at the store, the little black bags had jewels in them.


The Gypsy Kisses were very popular! Dark chocolate kisses in gold wrapping. I tried to keep to a color theme with gold, red and black candy.


The Gold Nuggets were chocolate and worked really well in a bag as this would have been a mess if they were loose.


I loved the red gym balls (Party City) had to use them!


The warning sign was necessary as there were pirates roaming around  just ready to steal your loot!


The large marshmallows were a huge hit especially with the parents : )


Plenty of Hot Tamale bullets for these busy pirates..


The gold nugget candy was my personal favorite!



Instead of chocolate I choose bubble gym coins.


The final product was a table full of goodies and I think I had more fun  putting it together than the kids did eating the candy!! But as you know that isn’t possible …they LOVED  filling their bags with candy!


The dress up table was put together with swords, eye patches, face paint, hats, jewelry and earrings for all:


Guests will be here soon!

Photo Tips: Details are very important. When you photography events be sure to get the details. It is hard to remember this especially if you are putting on the event. Take as much before the party as you can and make a list… it will help!

Is it time for a Pirate Birthday Party?

June 27th, 2012



Plastic sword, Gold Earring and eye patch: $1.45

Pirate Hat: 50 cents

Watermelon: $3.99

8 year old Pirate Birthday Party: Priceless

As a mom of four I have learned that life celebrations are so important.  It isn’t about the gifts and the ‘bought’ stuff – it is the act of celebration and the ‘gathering together’ that is priceless. It is saying ‘I love you’ with a homemade cake and welcoming 12 little friends with an eye patch, a plastic earring and a ‘beard’.   Where else can you make and eat marshmallow starfish and watermelon sharks?  It Is not that we need to go over board with every event  but it is important to take time to make things special and creative. It is a good thing to break out of the routine and realize, as often as we can, how blessed we are. Recognizing people we love in a fun creative way doesn’t have to be hard or expensive – – the important thing is to do something out of norm to make the day special…and add a few whimsical  touches when you can!

Celebrate: To show happiness at something.

Our babies turned 8 this weekend. I remember that powerful day 8 years ago when our lives changed forever once again and again when they both arrived one minute apart. They have provided the sparkle and intrigue to our lives as each of our children has but being the youngest they make me more aware of the privilege I have to stop and enjoy and celebrate the moments that fly by so quickly.

Birthdays are a great time  to celebrate joy and life and to gather family and friends together to celebrate  good things. 

Yes, it is time for an 8 year old backyard pirate birthday party!

So how do you start? 

You start with a fun invitation designed by one of your almost 8 year old boys!

The next two post will be more about the how to of the party planning but remember that it is important to use your camera tips for these shots as well  i.e. no flash, blurry background etc.


Andrew drew the pirate and after a little thinking I decided to copy it on some velum and use it as an overlay for the party invite.


We used some pirate money to add a little bling to the project! It is hard to add bring when you have boys but I love bling and always look for the chance to use it!


Once we decided the menu we got to work. Our ‘sisters’ (Aunts, friends etc.) all came aboard with all hands on deck using their creative juices  – – most of the ideas were original but a few were ‘stolen’ in the spirit of the pirate theme!

The first item on the list was the  Starfish s’mores!


This is what we did!

Melt 2 bags of marshmallows and spread out on a mixture of cornstarch and powder sugar:


Use plenty of the corn starch/powder sugar to keep it from sticking to your hands. Let sit for a few hours or overnight.


Turn out onto wax paper and cut out with cookie cutter dipped in the corn starch mixture.


Paint with melted chocolate using a pastry brush. Be sure to get the sides. Tip: Most of the directions will tell you to dip the starfish in melted chocolate but that does not work! Your starfish will melt in the hot chocolate. Between all the women in the kitchen and after a few minutes of panic we discovered this method works beautifully! We added a touch or oil to the semi-sweet chips to make it spread easily.


Dip in finely crushed graham cracker crumbs while the chocolate is till wet. Shake it off.


Pour the ‘beach sand’ on a platter using organic granulated sugar; I chose the lighter version as the color reminded me of the beaches in Sanibel, FL – my favorite place!


Donna and Melissa added the candy eyes.



Then the starfish were finally placed on the beach all safe and sound


The second item was the watermelon shark! WOW!!


Our very talented Sara will do the demonstration for you here. It is important to find a long watermelon as opposed to a round one. The seeded ones are usually oblong and the seedless are usually round.

Make your first cut at an angle…


…so it will sit on the counter.


Then draw a line where you want the mouth to start:



We ended up putting toothpicks in for reference points to help us see what we were doing:


Scoop out the melon in the mouth and keep it in a bowl to use to make a fruit salad to stuff back in the mouth when you are done.


To carve out the teeth, you will need to cut a very shallow line above the first cut then cut the teeth. Cut the outer layer of the green rind off to expose the white part of the melon.


Make the teeth as sharp as you want! If you lose a few it will be OK – – most sharks are missing some teeth!


We cut a piece of the left over rind for the fin and attached it with toothpicks and cut a hole out for the black ‘gumball’ eye.



Here he is with the final touch of the added fruit!


Finally what is a party without a cake?! We couldn’t decide between a cake or cupcakes so – – you guessed it  – – we did both!

The cake started out as a rectangle shape with a white  icing layer.

We added blue icing to make the water. Tip: buy the colored icing from your grocery bakery department; most will sell it by the pound and it works very well and is so much easier than mixing those dark colors especially for black, red, orange, blue etc..


We used left over starfish graham cracker crumbs for the sand. Doesn’t it look just like sand!?


We figured out that using Twizzlers worked great for the ‘x’s and the dotted lines (we just cut them into pieces for the dotted lines).  Since Andrew and Evan are twins we needed two ‘x’s  on this cake and we could put their names easily on the water. This cake was evolving as we went which is how most things happen around here when I am in party planning mode! The decision was made toward the end to cover the round foil-covered cardboard with water and sand…I think it was a good one!


I had some picks from Pier One from a long time ago that were in the craft drawer and they worked great for the palm trees (sometime it is good to hang on to stuff you think you will never use!) We also stole some shells from the kids room that looked pretty cute on the sand – – -and just took them off before we served the cake.


Cake is done!…. what next????


Cup cakes!


The first trick here is to pipe the icing on the cup cakes so you don’t get icing on the edge of the cup cake papers.


We started with a simple design using cut up red fruit rollups for the red pirate hats and the black icing for the eyes and mouth.


But, we had access to the pirate picks that came with the cup cake papers …so… we had to use them of course! We had a blast making them all different designs! This part was so fun and the boys were loving every minute!


A cut nugget candy made this treasurer chest:


We cut some pirate money in half for this one and added blue water and brown sugar sand.. We used some blue gel icing on top of the regular blue icing to give the water a wet/wave look.


A few more ‘x’s with black icing and brown sugar and some organic granulated sugar sprinkled on top from the ‘starfish’ beach for sand on this one.


A Swedish Fish was cut in half for this one with some fish sprinkles added…


My favorite cake decorating item is the editable clear glitter – – not sure if you can see it in this photo but it really makes the cup cake sparkle! I love putting this on all my cakes for a fun touch. Gotta love the glitter!


The cup cakes are complete!





While the cake and starfish can be made the night before the party the shark needs to be done the day of if possible to keep it looking fresh.

We had so much fun together planning our party and troubleshooting the sticky marshmallows, what to do with the cake, how to get the shark eyeball to stay in  and all the decisions around the different designs on the cup cakes. The process is as important as the party : ) The process is one of the important memories so be sure to get photos of the process.

Stay tuned for Day Two of the pirate party planning on my next post! Still lots to do before the guests arrive!

Baby Sophia Finally Meets Her Big Brothers!

June 15th, 2012

She is here safe and sound and as precious as we all imagined!



Sophia had a big ‘welcome to the family’ by her three big brothers!


Not too much writing today – – just a few tips to let you know that I used my 50mm lens and the wonderful window light that the hospital provided! No more dark dingy rooms from years gone by – – we had wonderful light for a wonderful birthday! party



Someone looks a little worried!







Just can’t get enough of this precious little girl!

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One thing is for sure – — she will be loved to pieces by all those brothers and everyone else of course!


Best wishes to Sara and Mitch as they bring little Sophia home….I’m sure you will be seeing more of Sophia as I have the honor of capturing her babyhood! Can’t wait!

No flash and virtually no editing thanks to the beautiful window light. General camera settings 50 mm lens; ISO 250, F Stop 2.0, ss 1/160

Every Party starts with a cute Invitation!

May 31st, 2012

We had  my  daughters end-of-year-gym-party recently and everyone knows that a great celebration starts with a great invitation! A lot of work goes into planning our life celebrations so it is important that we photograph them!

My friend and fellow gym mom, Marie, came up with the most wonderful invitations!


She even hand made the flower stickers to go on the back of the envelopes!



Andrew put his organizational skills to use and got them ready to hand out to the girls.






Once we had the invitations..the programs were easy!


…and so was the cake!


…and gift bags:


…and the front table!


The black, white and red theme was so easy and perfect for this event! I went early to get everything photographed before the crazy night began.



The candy bar was a big hit of the evening.


Remember to turn your flash off and don’t be afraid of the manual settings on your camera. You will like your photos much better. If you have a few minutes to work with your camera before you are distracted by everyone.


The biggest tip for shooting these type of events is to turn the people toward the natural light and turn your flash off.  If these girls had been facing the other direction their faces would have been dark with shadows.


Other helpful things to remember:

Make a list of what you want and don’t forget the details.

* photo of outside the venue

* party decorations and details (flowers, invitations, gifts, cake  etc.) all of these can be shot before the guests arrive.

* bring a guest list to check off names as you go so you don’t forget anyone

Recruit someone to help you line up the guests; it is hard to ask people to turn around and then be the one to get the shots too.

Get the shots you need early – – once the festivity/program  begins it is almost impossible to think about what you need!

Plan to photograph couples/parents with daughters/sons as they come in possibly even before they come in the main door. Photograph them together outside of the venue before they see their friends and get sidetracked.

Be sure to bring an extra battery and extra memory for your camera.

This is the time of year for end of year celebrations and graduations parties and other events so be sure to document them with your camera – -you will be so happy to have the pictures once the party is over!!

Baby on the way!

May 9th, 2012

The miracle of life is never ‘old news’ and in my opinion, you can never start taking pictures too early!


This sweet mom has three little ducks… following her everywhere:


Pretty soon there will be a fourth little blessing to add to this shot!


Here are a  few mom tips for these type of group shots:

1. What to wear?

This is a hard thing to figure out especially when you have more than 2 in the shot. It can be stressful enough to get everyone in the car for the drive over to get the shot – so worrying about what to wear needs to be figured out well before hand. Pack a few things  – options are good.

First clothes tip: leave the white shirts at home. Faces will look better against the darker backgrounds. the dark brown and blue is a good choice.

Second: mixing the plaid on the little guy works well to break it up. A small plaid on the smallest person is good.

Third: long sleeve shirts keep you focused on the faces which is your goal. Eight bear arms would have been very distracting in this group shot.


2. Think in triangles. Can you see some of the triangles that the faces are making in this photo above? Not every face is on the same straight line across.

3. This composition below isn’t ‘triangles’ but it works as it shows ‘order’.


4. Find the shots within the shots when you can get the emotion of the moment even if it doesn’t include all the subjects



5. Tell the story. this shot is a storytelling shot for sure!


6. Show the relationships. I took the shirt off the little guy for a bit – -I love baby skin to show.


7. Show perspective. All the little hands show age and size. Our kids hands are such a wonderful memory for us moms.


8. the silhouette shots are so fun and so easy to do and I love the ‘uncluttered’ story they tell.


9. Generally I don’t like props but  — I love this bear with her belly.


10. Another relationship shot that says so much about this little guy and how much he loves his momma.



11.  Get faces close together. It may be a bit awkward but ask for it.


And ask them to get even closer.


The biggest tip is to take time to get the photos of the most precious moments in your life. You will be so happy you took the time!!


Shots were taken at around 3:30 in the afternoon against dark green evergreen trees and the subjects facing the open sky – you can see the lights in their eyes.

ISO 320  F stop 4.00 and the shutter speed  varied between 1/320 – 1/1000 depending on the sun going in and out of the clouds!

How to Catch a Dragonfly

April 21st, 2012


I love dragonflies. I have dragonfly things around the house and if you want to read a wonderful story Google ‘the Dragonfly Story’. When I first put this site up I was trying to figure out a place for a small dragonfly in the logo (I will get it in soon!).

Dragonflies are actually pretty friendly and much to my surprise they were not as hard to capture as I thought they may be.

The boys were fishing and we had a very friendly dragonfly come over for a visit. I had my 24-70 lens and put my settings on:

ISO on 400 because I wanted to be able to make my shutter faster to freeze the action of the fast wings.

f stop 3.5 because I wanted a blurry background

shutter speed ended up at 1/1020 because I knew it would be hard to freeze the action if it was slower.


I had to really get a good aim. I set my selection points to a center focus and was able to press the shutter button when I had the red dot right on the dragonfly. It takes some practice for sure to move that fast and get a good aim.


I did watch the background because the shots in front of the trees obviously did not work out too well the solid water and sky worked best.


I believe that our dragonfly friend enjoyed our fishing outing as much as we did. Even though I was the one trying to capture him he ended up capturing my fascination and my heart – -  our little helicopter friend!


Enjoy your spring, take time to sit down outside with your camera and see if you can capture a dragonfly or anything else that may be flying by!

Avoid This Big Mistake

April 10th, 2012

One big mistake that camera moms make when it comes to taking those ‘quick get the shot’ photos in every day life is that they don’t pay attention to the available light.

You know the moments that I am taking about: a moment arises – – someone says ‘who has a camera?’ and 6 people pull out their phones!

This moment happened to me yesterday and I was so glad that I had my iPhone! We were at a wonderful violin exhibit with our violin teacher and met the man who refurbished all the beautiful violins in the exhibit. Our teacher was so excited to get her photo with this very famous man (to be honest I had no idea who he was!) but she was thrilled to meet him unexpectedly.  So 6 moms got their phones out and everyone basically got this same photo: (I took this one so I could show you this good bad example!)


I saw what was happening…. and decided to be bold and ask the three people to turn around and face the light. They did not have to move much just simply do a half turn and face the exact opposite direction. I realized that with the bright window light behind them the photo would be a failure. I also knew that our teacher really wanted a photo with this famous man and I didn’t want to let her down. Sometime to be a good photographer you have to be bold and unpopular for a moment. They did not want to move; people never do. I waited for everyone to finish (taking their bad photos) and kindly asked the 3 subjects turn around. I was smiling and begging .. please, please, please… : ) They finally did and I got this one  shot but it was much better:


Understand that NOTHING changed on my iPhone. I simply asked them to turn around and face the light! That was it.

I am so glad that I took the extra effort to get this for our teacher she is so happy to have it.

Remember that photography is all about light. Study it, use it and make it your friend. And don’t be afraid to ask for what you want. Sometime people and circumstances won’t cooperate but when they do it is always worth the extra effort!

hint: if there is no way to turn the subject toward the light then…I hate to even say this… you will want to turn on your flash. Your camera may not want to turn on the flash automatically because it will ‘see’ tons of light and think that you don’t need anymore. However if the light is behind the people it won’t matter and their faces will be dark and you will have to turn on the flash. But only use the flash as a last resort! Always ask them to move first and face the light! Especially in a setting like this where there is plenty of beautiful available light!

How To Catch A Teen!

March 26th, 2012

We all know that photographing a teen is pretty challenging. 

You know what I mean.

I call the whole experience a TPA (Teen Photo Attempt)… It is an attempt. Remember that. You won’t always get it on the first try so don’t get discouraged at all; just keep trying!

The moon and the stars must be lined up just right as well as the shoes, the weather the mood the clothes and … everything else. I will say that getting some extra help can be a must if you are the camera mom. A cousin or friend will do (and is very necessary) to provide the bit of distraction necessary for a successful shoot. It is also a good idea to leave your house and go someone fun and different. We went to the area around our little local library.

This happens to be one of the least stressful shots (below)- – I recommend it for all moms of teens : )


So head out to a pretty place… and take some practice shots….of the scenery…



Then with friend to distract… start snapping a few of the flowers of course and see what else you might get : )


“Yes honey I am getting ….


the flowers!”


As you know the face is not necessary to tell the full story…


but the face is what we are after!  “Got it!”

You have to be quick, the smile may not last too long….


Don’t forget the teen jewelry and other details that define her personality.


The tracks were also fun and interesting for her to get distracted …


Back to the flowers; after all that is what we went out for! Right?


Make it fun and happy. Hand your teen the camera and see what she comes up with too:


Lord knows that these tricky teen years are full of exciting times…


mixed in with a little stress….


a little uncertainly…


and a lot of decisions.


No need for the photo shoot to be anything but fun and happy! Get if done today – –


Enjoy your sweet minutes with  your teen; she is growing up right before your eyes : ) Grab a tissue and grab your camera. Go get your teen off the computer or iphone and head outside to take some pictures of the flowers and see what else you might get!

Happy Spring!


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